In today’s write up, I will be focusing on the disadvantages of premarital sex between two people/individuals who have agreed to date, in other words, sex before marriage.
In today’s world, it is very normal for two consenting adults in a relationship to satisfy themselves sexually and find completion in it, while a very few, opt to wait to be legally bound before proceeding to the deed.
While the large population seem to agree or accept reasons why people should or can have sex before marriage; reasons ranging from knowing if the persons desires matches yours, knowing his/her performative strength in bed or even just for the sake of being together, and most of my girlies want to know if the D is just the adequate size. I, in this post will like to lean towards reasons for abstaining from sex until marriage.
N.B this is in no way judging anyone or anybody, just to raise some points I might agree with.
Even as the popular saying, “what will be will be” goes, In most cases, engaging in sex before marriage might lead to time wastage because in most cases, it causes your partner (most especially the men), to feel too relaxed as to taking the relationship to the next stage or the next level.
Also, in cases where your partner has to be away for a while, he might as well get what he’s not having elsewhere (he cheats).
I generally believe that sex with someone you’re in love with can never be bad, even if so, since there is unrequited love shared between the two, there will always be enough room to teach and to learn.
In conclusion, if you feel old enough or comfortable enough to get married, it is important to date with purpose, even if difficult to abstain (Yikes! Tell me about it); a part of me feels like if you really meet a person of interest, you should abstain from sex, if that relationship is really heading somewhere, I mean at the end of it all (when y’all finally get married), sex will still happen right???
Feel free to drop your thoughts in the comments.
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