What are the red flags in a talking stage?

 Hi guys! This is my first ever post, and today I will be focusing on talking about "talking stages" in relationships and dating.

 

So guys, we all know that before moving forward or agreeing to date someone, we all go through what we call the "talking stage," the stage where you get to know if your person of interest fits into your little tick boxes.

 

I will be asking a few questions in this particular post, and I need your opinions and answers in the comment section.

 

Now, for the guys, how long do you take before you approach a girl of interest? And when you finally do, if in the talking stage you find things you don’t like about her, do you ghost her? Try to sleep with her, and then still ghost her after you’ve slept with her? keep her as a friend? Or just straight-up tell her that she might not be what you are looking for?

 

And as for the ladies, do y’all go out of your way to pretend or lie just to please a guy at first? Maybe because he might be what you have in mind, so you go out of your way to try and be perfect for his taste? 

Another question for the ladies: Have you ever been ghosted by a guy you really like during the talking stage? especially when the cookie has been given up, and how long during the talking stage can you give up the cookie when you are really feeling the guy? If he eventually ghosts you, did you ever take him back? And if you did take him back, was it for revenge? Or because his reasons for ghosting you were valid? Put it all out in the comment section, guys.

 

Now, ladies and gentlemen, what are the red flags you look out for during the talking stage? What are your deal breakers? And during the talking stage or after the first date, what are those characteristics in a person that make you want to see the person again or keep talking to the said person?

Let us know in the comment section.

 

 

Finally, I think we get physically attracted to a person first, and it only takes talking to that person more to know if you want to be around that person for a long time. If after talking to the person, you feel that the person does not fit the shoe or box that you want to fill, in other not to hurt anyone, you just let them know in the most polite way that it won’t work out, rather than ghosting them without a word, or using them for your selfish gain before ghosting them, so that both parties can move on amicably.

 

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